Where do you spend your bitcoin?

I'm wondering where you spend your Bitcoin for things like coffee, groceries, and electronics – I'm in the market for a new laptop, but Facebook Marketplace and Craigslist all seem like scams or people aren't accepting bitcoin. Now that LocalBitcoins is down, where do you go to spend? I haven't come across any reputable websites and BitPay has about 50/50 reviews on success rates.

I know many are still in HODL phase or trying to maximize investments through DCFing until retirement, but until we have mass retail and service adoption, BTC will still just be a register of perceived value rather than an actual store of value.