To DApp or not to DApp

Today that we see major DApps like AAVE and Curve limiting access of account to and from their services it is clear that this is not the defi future we all wished for. Holding funds in centralized apps seems as risky as holding them on DApps.

Would you agree?

What are the alternatives? Any good reliable undoxxed that cant be terrorized into to compliment DApps we can use instead?