Eth Pending

Brought an NFT over 13 hours ago on Rarible and it’s still pending. Not showing up on etherscan or anything so can’t find transaction details, I’ve read a lot and people seem to mention finding the nonce and subtracting 1 and trying again but how to I go about that as it was a purchase on rarible? The original NFT has gone up by about $700 dollars overnight so I can’t exactly try and buy that one again! Any help would be appreciated Thankyou

Edit: I paid the medium gas fee on coinbase wallet which was $58 dollars at the time so I didn’t cheap out too much on gas either